Monday 22 August 2016

Showing your interest in Gaming/Anime without getting bullied

Finding people who like the same things as you is difficult, especially if you like stuff such as Nintendo games or Anime. If you show it off too much you could become a target.
But there is a way to embrace your inner nerd and make friends without the non-nerds taking the hints. He's how

1. Less is more technique
I don't recommend walking into school with everything in the style of one game or anime character. Maybe wear a cute Zelda neckles, put a keychain of Jigglypuff on your school bag or maybe even have a hard back book in the style of Rosalina's storybook. No one will know that these little things come from a game or anime unless they played it making it great conversation material.

2. Past tense technique
Instead of asking someone "Did you get the new game that came out last week?" say something casually like "Did you own a game console when you were younger?" You might get lucky are find out that people still play them or even have the never stuff as well. Be careful with this technique though, because someone could just own an X-BOX 360 with COD and that's all. 
We aren't about the only COD life.

3. Friends now, Nerdiness later technique
Make some friends through other intreasts first then maybe at a sleepover your friends will notice you shelves upon shelves of anime in your room. A sleepover is also a great way to introduce your friends to these things without bullies creeping around. Maybe even have a trade; zone hour of doing your makeup and hair in exchange for an hour of Mario Kart or a few episodes of Your Lie in April. After the sleepover if they leave you they weren't true friends.

4. The intreast and study blend technique
This one might be impossible if you don't do any creative subjects, but if you do that's great. You could draw your favourite gaming character or learn your favourite anime opening on piano. Whatever works for you. I remember doing an ICT course and we had to make a poster on whatever we wanted so I made a Super Smash Bros poster with Photoshop (got an A* by the way). 

Some little tips
Here are some little tips to help you make some gaming and anime friends.

• Bring your 3DS to school! You could Streetpass people in your school and try to find the owner. This might be difficult since most people's Miis don't look alike. Also the school isn't responsible for your stolen or broken 3DS
• You don't have to be popular to do well in school. Studies first, friendships later.
• In the UK (I don't know what its like elsewhere) its okay to be a nerd during 6th form onwards (age 17) so if your younger just be patient and you'll find your proper group of friends soon.
• Having other intreasts comes in handy too. I play video games and watch anime but I'm also really passionate about Music and Drama (plus a little drawing on the side.
• When you do find some nerdy friends don't always talk about nerdy stuff. Talk about other things too.

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